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            FACETIME
          
        
        
          Education has always been part of my
        
        
          life, coming from a family of teachers.
        
        
          After earning my master’s in creative writ-
        
        
          ing from the University of Iowa, there were
        
        
          no royalties coming in, so I decided to see
        
        
          what teaching was like. I applied to various
        
        
          places – not St. Paul’s, I don’t know why
        
        
          –  but to Phillips Exeter. They made me
        
        
          a George Bennett intern, and I enjoyed it
        
        
          very much. The rule was you had to leave
        
        
          after a year until you got more experience
        
        
          and then reapply, but then I went on to
        
        
          SPS and never
        
        
          
            did
          
        
        
          reapply. I was just a
        
        
          kid, in my early 20s.
        
        
          Creative writing was the most exciting
        
        
          course I taught.
        
        
          At a party with students
        
        
          who have gone on to writing careers, no
        
        
          one said there was some magic touch I had;
        
        
          they just said I was “affirming.” I just made
        
        
          ‘em write. Once I picked up
        
        
          
            The New Yorker,
          
        
        
          and there were three former students
        
        
          who had articles in a single issue – Lizzie
        
        
          Widdicombe [’01], Nick Paumgarten [’87],
        
        
          and Dana Goodyear [’94]. You teach some-
        
        
          body and get ‘em so excited about creative
        
        
          writing, and you think, my gosh, what have
        
        
          I done? How can they make any money?
        
        
          But if you can put a story together cre-
        
        
          atively, you can put a report together, or
        
        
          a law treatise, or anything in any career.
        
        
          Another favorite course for me was
        
        
          Humor and Satire
        
        
          ,
        
        
          which I’m still
        
        
          teaching at something called the Beacon
        
        
          Hill Seminars, where the faculty includes
        
        
          retired professors and prep school
        
        
          teachers. Next on the list is Boston
        
        
          Literature, and I’ve also taught the Lost
        
        
          Generation.
        
        
          I’m still writing short stories.
        
        
          Most of
        
        
          them have academic settings, but not all.
        
        
          My newest one is meant to be funny, but
        
        
          I’ve had more trouble with it than any
        
        
          other. It’s about somebody who everyone
        
        
          thinks is crazy because he’s always out
        
        
          walking his cat on a leash. I’ve got some
        
        
          long short stories and wondered if I could
        
        
          turn one into a novel.
        
        
          One thing I cannot do is proofread
        
        
          .
        
        
          I’ve
        
        
          just written a review for the
        
        
          
            Horae
          
        
        
          of the
        
        
          wonderful new novel by Rick Moody [’79].
        
        
          I read it aloud and sent it in to the maga-
        
        
          zine, but afterwards asked Joanne to read
        
        
          it. She spotted some proofreading errors
        
        
          and said, ‘You haven’t sent that in, have
        
        
          you? There were four mistakes. Here you
        
        
          were, head of an English Department, and
        
        
          you were going to send in something like
        
        
          that?’ I don’t know whether it’s a psycho-
        
        
          logical deficit, but I’ve got to have somebody
        
        
          look over things.
        
        
          In grading papers, I might sometimes
        
        
          not have gotten all the mistakes,
        
        
          but
        
        
          quite frankly you don’t need to. A teacher
        
        
          can over-grade a paper. You can drive ’em
        
        
          nuts, you can discourage them. There are
        
        
          other things to worry about – if they can
        
        
          think clearly and develop their thoughts,
        
        
          that’s the most important thing.
        
        
          For the last year and a half, I’ve been
        
        
          working on a book that collects some
        
        
          of the sermons of [Ninth Rector] Kelly
        
        
          Clark.
        
        
          He spoke about St. Paul and Jesus,
        
        
          and the power of love that comes to us from
        
        
          Jesus. He really preached what he believed.
        
        
          We’ll be in San Miguel through March.
        
        
          We’ve been going for 10 years. I write, read,
        
        
          go to the gym, walk around, drink coffee.
        
        
          I’m going to work more on my Spanish;
        
        
          I’m not fluent at all. There’s a great group
        
        
          of people and a creative atmosphere –
        
        
          openings, concerts, a big writers’ confer-
        
        
          ence. At a dinner party last year, eight
        
        
          Paulies were there.
        
        
          Having the honor of this chair named
        
        
          for me means, years from now, my name
        
        
          will still be known in some way at a
        
        
          school I served for 45 years and loved
        
        
          and enjoyed working in.
        
        
          I didn’t know
        
        
          anything about it at all, and then Reeve
        
        
          Waud [’81] called and invited me to a dinner
        
        
          in New York, and there we were in a beau-
        
        
          tiful setting, with alumni I knew and liked,
        
        
          and I was on top of the world. Then Reeve
        
        
          called me up front and handed a plaque
        
        
          to me and asked me to pose for pictures,
        
        
          and he did it in such a way that I didn’t
        
        
          see what the plaque was, and I just held
        
        
          it up. It could have said ‘kick me’ for all
        
        
          I knew; I had no idea. People cheered
        
        
          and I turned the plaque around and saw
        
        
          Reeve’s name and the names of Bob
        
        
          Lindsay [’73], Chris Willis [’77], Perot
        
        
          Bissell [’77], Jamie Rose [’77], and Jason
        
        
          Andris [’92]. It was a great surprise, and
        
        
          I was very pleased.
        
        
          I always felt like St. Paul’s was home.
        
        
          The whole School just seems to be alive
        
        
          – the Chapel with its bells ringing, the
        
        
          dormitories where I lived, the place where
        
        
          I ate, where I prayed, my friends on the
        
        
          faculty, the students.
        
        
          
            In early February, having learned of the
          
        
        
          
            establishment of the George Carlisle
          
        
        
          
            Chair in Humanities, Mr. Carlisle spoke
          
        
        
          
            with the
          
        
        
          Horae
        
        
          
            about life after his re-
          
        
        
          
            tirement from the SPS faculty in 2008.
          
        
        
          
            After the interview, he and his wife,
          
        
        
          
            Joanne, left for their yearly sojourn in
          
        
        
          
            Mexico’s San Miguel de Allende.
          
        
        
          with Faculty Emeritus George Carlisle
        
        
          “George has touched
        
        
          the lives of thousands
        
        
          of students. It’s a
        
        
          tremendous honor
        
        
          to celebrate him and the
        
        
          lifelong contribution
        
        
          he has made to SPS.”
        
        
          – Reeve Waud ’81, P’09,’12
        
        
          Reeve Waud ’81, George Carlisle,
        
        
          and Melissa Waud