var textForPages = ["SPRING 2020 COR JESU ACADEMY MAGAZINE Connections","“I invite you to join me in focusing on the blessings that accompany change, grateful for the cherished connections that make them possible.” SR. VERONICA BEATO, ASCJ ‘74 INTERIM PRESIDENT/PRINCIPAL ~ Read more of Sr. Veronica’s letter on page 2.","in 4 Around the Halls: US-Mexico Border Pilgrimage A “Slam Dunk” by Niele Ivey ’96 16 this issue 18 Cheryl Bauer Bartnett ’77, Webster Groves Bookshop ON THE COVER: Susan Vieth Zeid ‘04 with daughters Caroline and Anna, and CJ classmates Dr. Christine Cortelyou Pazandak ‘04 and Dr. Colleen Brennan ‘05. Read the story on page 6. President’s Letter 2 Giving Tuesday 14 Lauren Murphy Event 21 Around the Halls 4 Visit with Santa 15 Reunions 22 FEATURE FEATURE Alumnae Traces 23 Searching for a Sign: From Fairground Park to Susan Vieth Zeid ‘04 6 the NBA: Niele Ivey ‘96 16 Upcoming Events 23 President’s Reception 9 FEATURE Heart-to-Heart Society 24 Partnering with a Purpose: Webster Groves Bookshop: 18 In Memoriam 25 Cheryl Bauer Bartnett ‘77 Don Killian 10 CPI: exp3 + INC 12 41st Annual Auction 20 SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 1","President’s Letter As I write this letter, I am sitting in my office at the front of Cor Jesu, facing Gravois. I look out the window and can’t help but imagine how much the landscape will change in the next few years. We are on our way to achieving a vision INTERIM PRESIDENT/PRINCIPAL Sr. Veronica Beato, ASCJ ‘74 we established for this campus more than a decade ago. We INTERIM ASST. PRINCIPAL / hope to break ground on a new chapel during the 2021-2022 DIRECTOR OF STUDENT school year, a chapel that will sit exactly where it should: at LEARNING the forefront of our campus. Sr. Susan Marie Krupp, ASCJ ‘76 Change has been a constant at Cor Jesu this year. Last DEAN OF CURRICULUM \& PROFESSIONAL DEVELOPMENT summer, our president, Sr. Barbara Thomas, ASCJ, was named Jeanne Suda the Provincial Superior for the United States province of the DIRECTOR OF ALUMNAE Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. As she prepared to take RELATIONS on her new role, we all had the opportunity to reflect on her Patty Ferrara ‘85 years of service to Cor Jesu. During her tenure, we doubled the school’s footprint. We opened new science labs, a new CJTV studio, new athletic ABOUT: fields and added invaluable parking space. We successfully completed SPIRIT is Cor Jesu Academy’s publication for alumnae, parents, a $10 million campaign to give Cor Jesu a performance gymnasium, friends and benefactors. student commons, active learning classrooms and a dance studio. Last summer, we opened a new choir and orchestral space. CONTACT: In addition to capital improvements, we have made strides toward SPIRIT ensuring Catholic education is financially accessible for families. In the last Cor Jesu Academy 12 years, the Endowment Fund has grown from $2 million to $9 million; 10230 Gravois Road St. Louis, MO 63123 annual financial aid has increased fivefold, to $1.1 million annually, with cbarry@corjesu.org more than 40 percent of families now receiving tuition assistance. It seems change has been a running theme here at Cor Jesu, thanks to EDITOR: the connections and relationships we’ve built since the Apostles founded Colleen Barry ‘11 the school in 1956. Serving as the interim president these last 7 months, Director of Marketing \& Social Media I have experienced numerous alumnae events, one Giving Tuesday and an Auction from a new perspective. I have watched you pour SUBMISSIONS: out your love and support for Cor Jesu with amazing generosity. You We welcome your story site many reasons for this kindness, but almost all come down to the ideas and submissions. connections you made here – connections to faculty, to friends, and, Please contact Colleen Barry ’11 most significantly, a deep connection to the Sacred Heart. at cbarry@corjesu.org. While the landscape has changed and our lives have taken us in THANK YOU different directions, the charism of the Sacred Heart has not wavered. Thank you to CJA alumna Alex That spirit, the essence of Cor Jesu, has remained as steadfast as the love Smith Adams ’09, owner of Birdeye of the Heart of Christ itself. And thanks to your continued dedication, Media, for digitally capturing many we look forward to eventually expressing our charism in a Sacred Heart of Cor Jesu’s special moments and contributing to this publication. chapel while also increasing opportunities for financial aid to ensure Cor And thank you to Stephanie Klinker Jesu remains a pillar of Catholic all-girls education, one that is accessible Howe, owner of Klink Creative, for to young women regardless of socioeconomic status. creatively displaying life at Cor Jesu As we emerge from winter and enter this spring season, I invite you to in this magazine. join me in focusing on the blessings that accompany change, grateful for the cherished connections that make them possible. www.corjesu.org Sincerely in the Sacred Heart, @corjesuacademy Sr. Veronica Beato, ASCJ ‘74 Interim President/Principal ©2020, Cor Jesu Academy. All rights reserved. 2","CJA sweeps SJA in Funderwear for the first time ever! Photos below by Christine Ngo ‘21 and Mia Pogue ‘20 CJA wins the halftime tug-of-war contest! CJA wins the basketball game, 55-44! CJA wins “The Pants!” 3","Around the Halls Amazing things happen here 1 BRAVO CORDE PLAYERS! CJA’s Corde Players put on a fabulous Fall Play this year! Thanks to the dedicated cast and crew, play on time director, Mrs. Anna Millar, Radium Girls was a huge success. A special shout out to our first- for her passion and guidance! 4 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","Stay current as it all happens! @corjesuacademy follow us 6 CJA CROSS COUNTRY HISTORY The Cross Country team earned 7th place all together at the State Cross Country Meet and three runners medaled for the first time in CJ history! Francie Luna ’22 2 Watlow Scholars + Perfect ACT Scores 9th place Isobel Dernlan ’20 and Anastasia Ramig ’20 had a Molly Rolwes ’20 great fall semester! Both were selected as Cor Jesu’s 17th place Adie Luna ’23 Watlow Scholars, each earning a $7,500 scholarship toward 18th place senior year tuition and a paid internship at Watlow this summer. 7 5 CHARGERS From left: Molly, Francie Plus, each earned a perfect score on the ACT! GO D1 and Adie Five Charger athletes signed 9 YAG SUCCESS 5 A Pilgrimage to play sports at Mathis ’21 was Margaret letters of intent Elizabeth Division I colleges Lorson 21, next year: elected to serve as the Governor for Maxine Straka ’22 Julia Boyet ‘20 the 2020 Youth and Government (YAG) and CJ faculty member, Softball at Duke Conference! University Peggy McGraw, Taylor Etling ‘20 Campbell Tiffin ’20 represented Cor Jesu Field Hockey at served as the 2019 Indiana University YAG Conference Emily Henken ‘20 on the Pilgrimage to Volleyball at Saint Media Director. Libby Meister ’22 and Louis University 3 EMMA HERR ’20 the U.S.-Mexico Border Jillian Mattingly ‘20 Mary Tiffin ’20 were earned the in El Paso in November. Volleyball at Saint named “Outstanding President’s They experienced Louis University Statesmen” at the Volunteer Service Kelsey Watson ‘20 2019 Conference. Gold Medal after life along the border and celebrated the Volleyball at Loyola completing 250+ Eucharist with Mexican and U.S. Bishops University Chicago 10 LILY KINNISON hours of service in a ’21 earned 12-month period. on All Souls Day. 8 ENGINEERS the distinction IN FASHION of Soprano, 2nd Our Engineering Alternate, for the Class created their 2020 Missouri 4 COR JESU’S own convertible All-State Choir! MOCK TRIAL shoes that teams placed 1st and seamlessly change 11 LINDENWOOD 3rd in the inaugural from heels to flats! UNIVERSITY Show-Me Mock Trial HIGH SCHOOL ART Tournament at SLU EXHIBITION in October. Mary Kate Charles ’20 earned Best in Show. Grace Killian ’20 earned 2nd place in Ceramics. SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 5","Searching for a Sign 6","Susan said. “So this was devastating for their friend. She had an infection because we knew that even if our and her baby needed to come out as baby survived, it would be a very quickly as possible. difficult road.” On October 21, 2018, Anna Mary Susan arrived at Barnes Jewish to Zeid was born at 28-weeks. A team a hospital room equipped for her to of doctors from St. Louis Children’s give birth. She received magnesium Hospital cared for Anna, while a and steroid shots to stop her labor team of doctors from Barnes Jewish and promote the baby’s development. focused on her mom. These were The doctors told her it was crucial scary moments for Nick; he wasn’t for her to make it through the first sure if either would make it. Doctors 24-hours – and she did. Twenty-four directed Nick to go to the Newborn hours turned into 48 hours, 48 hours Intensive Care Unit (NICU) with Anna turned into 72 hours, and assured him Susan would be fine – and they were right. Nick was able and 72 hours turned Searching for a Sign into 4 full weeks. to take Susan to see Anna for the first time the next day. Susan lived in her hospital room for a “I thought I had prepared myself,” month, giving her baby time to grow. Susan said. “I knew she would be really small and hooked up to a lot of things. “There was nothing You want a feeling of excitement hen she was I could do for myself and my baby when you see your baby for the first CJA CONNECTIONS 24-weeks pregnant besides pray,” Susan said. “I prayed the time, but this time, I was terrified.” with her second rosary every single day I was there.” Anna weighed only 2lbs, 5oz. Susan W child, Susan Vieth When she wasn’t praying, Susan was distraught by how vulnerable and Zeid ’04 started experiencing unusual was blessed with lots of visitors, fragile her daughter looked. The nurse symptoms. She called her doctor and including many Cor Jesu friends. In at Children’s talked Susan through went in for a check-up at Missouri true CJ fashion, the Chargers created her daughter’s condition and care Baptist Hospital in St. Louis. She left a schedule so that Susan consistently plan, and made her feel comfortable in an ambulance bound for Barnes had a visitor to distract her. And when enough to go back to her room and Jewish Hospital, and a longer journey Susan had to cancel on a girls’ trip to focus on her own recovery. While she than Susan or her husband, Nick, Arizona, some of the other girls that felt some comfort, Susan was still could have imagined. The minute that couldn’t attend brought Arizona to looking for her sign that everything ambulance door closed, she began her hospital room. would be okay. searching for a sign that everything “They showed up with blow up Enter Dr. Pazandak. would be okay. cacti, balloons and other decorations!” The next day, Dr. Christine Cortelyou Susan was in labor that day, and her Susan said. “We had our own girls’ Pazandak walked into Susan’s hospital doctors said that she would not be trip right in my hospital room and room to meet the mom of her newest leaving the hospital until she had the even face-timed the girls actually in patient at Children’s. Because Susan’s baby. At only 24 weeks, Susan and Nick Arizona. It was special.” married name was on the charts, were scared; they knew their baby Not too long after the Arizona party Dr. Pazandak was unaware that she wasn’t ready for the outside world. began, Susan spiked a 103-degree was walking into the room of a former “It was very difficult for us to get fever. The CJ girls quickly left Susan’s Cor Jesu classmate. pregnant with our second child,” care to the doctors and went to pray Sign received. Susan and Nick Zeid with daughters Caroline (left) and Anna. SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 7","From left to right: Caroline, Anna, Susan, Dr. Pazandak and Dr. Brennan After spending Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas and New Year’s at Children’s, the Zeids finally said their goodbyes to their Children’s family on January 9, 2019. Dr. Pazandak did the honors of discharging Anna – a special moment for both her and Susan. And if Susan wasn’t convinced after her first sign from God that “I loved the Children’s staff already, was in the care of people who loved Anna would be okay, she was certain but when I found out that Anna her like their own – she was never when she saw the doctors at Anna’s was being cared for by not only an nervous to leave. 6-month check-up. Dr. Pazandak amazing Children’s doctor, but a Anna was doing so well that Susan happened to be the physician Cor Jesu classmate of mine, I was so says the doctors and nurses made in clinic that day, administering relieved,” Susan said. her the official mascot of her section Anna’s check-up – and she was Each time Dr. Pazandak had Anna of the NICU. Anna flourished through accompanied by Dr. Colleen Brennan, as a patient during her shift, she was every challenge in those first few a 2005 CJ grad, who happened to sure to stop by Susan’s room and let months of life. She gained weight have red hair…just like Anna. “Faith-wise, Cor Jesu instilled her know there was no need to worry. every day and tolerated medication. in me the notion that I was never CJA CONNECTIONS Lots of faces are coming in and out, due dates, Anna was able to go home was going to get me through tough “When you’re in these situations, And while premature babies are alone,” Susan said. “I knew that God you see a lot of doctors and nurses. typically discharged on their actual times, but I don’t think I fully realized and it’s overwhelming,” Susan said. “So five full days before hers. it until this experience with Anna. “The doctors told me Anna was a when you see a familiar face, and it’s I never felt truly lost, even in these someone you associate with a place miracle, and that progress like this (Cor Jesu) that made you feel so safe and comfortable, that good feeling said. “I think Anna was an inspiration for them.” comes back. Having Christine as wasn’t typical for the NICU,” Susan dark times.” Anna’s doctor was my sign from God.” Eventually, Susan was discharged from the hospital and was able to be with Anna in the NICU during the day, and also go home and keep a normal family routine with her 4-year-old daughter, Caroline. At Children’s, Susan knew that Anna “ Faith-wise, Cor Jesu instilled in me the notion that I was ” never alone. -SUSAN VIETH ZEID ‘04 8 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","EVENTS PRESIDENT’S RECEPTION in honor ON JULY 14, 2019, Cor Jesu’s president, Sr. Barbara Thomas, ASCJ, was appointed Provincial Superior for the United States province of the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus. In October, we had the opportunity to welcome Sr. Barbara back and thank her for everything she accomplished on CJ’s behalf at our first-ever President’s Reception. Special thanks to current parents Dan and Mary Charles for hosting the event at Greenbriar Hills Country Club. We look forward to making the President’s Reception an annual event! SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 9","Partnering with a Purpose D o n Killian and C entene C o rp o ratio n find value in b eco m ing a C o r Jesu Academ y C o rp o rate Partner. CORPORATE PARTNERS INITIATIVE hen high school as a participant in Summer Don, working with other motivated students gifted in Engineering Experience (SEE) Week. Centene colleagues, organized a mathematics look As Grace learned more about her variety of educational and hands- W ahead to the future, potential career paths, Don learned on activities designed to expose they’re sure to consider careers in more about the value of the initiative. the girls to the actuarial science engineering and accounting—but “Our company purpose at Centene field and careers within it. He also what about actuarial sciences? You is: ‘Transforming the health of the invited an actuarial science professor know—the discipline that applies community, one person at a time,’” from Maryville University to guide mathematical and statistical methods Don says. “And transforming health students through the academic path to assess risk in insurance, finance isn’t just providing doctor visits. It’s for pursuing those careers. and other industries and professions? getting involved in the community “I want to make sure that girls Most high school students do to help better people’s lives. Seeing interested in math are aware of not know of this discipline, and the the amazing career exploration actuarial science and understand that rare ones that do, likely don’t have a opportunities Grace was being given it’s another great, but often overlooked, grasp of what it really means to be at Cor Jesu, I wanted Centene to get STEM career path,” Don says. developing leaders an actuary. Fortunately, at Cor Jesu, involved in helping these students In addition to exp3 Day, Centene students now have the opportunity on their journey.” has also participated in Cor Jesu’s to not only learn about, but also To do so, Don spearheaded Alumnae Internship Networking experience actuarial science, thanks Centene’s efforts to become an Connections (INC) event, where to the Corporate Partners Initiative official Cor Jesu Corporate Partner. In college-aged Cor Jesu alumnae (CPI) and “Grace’s dad.” 2018, Centene hosted its first group seeking jobs and internships can CJ senior Grace Killian’s dad, Don of CJ students on exp3 Day, and network and make connections Killian, is the Senior Vice President of Actuarial Services at Centene available through CPI, first with “ One of Centene’s major focuses is to Corporation. In 2016, as a freshman at Cor Jesu, Grace began to take develop the next generation of leaders. advantage of the opportunities exp3 Day, the program’s annual And what better place to find those ” career exploration day, and then, the summer after sophomore year, leaders than at Cor Jesu? -DON KILLIAN 10 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","with different corporations. In fact, two Cor Jesu alumnae from the Class of 2015, Shannon Turner and Anne Wilhelm, worked as interns at Centene during the summer of 2018 as a direct result of the INC event. Further, Shannon was hired full-time at Centene after graduating from the University of Missouri-Columbia in May 2019 as a result of the internship. “Cor Jesu girls all have a similar makeup in terms of their excellent work ethic, intelligence and desire to be challenged,” Don notes. “So, of course we want to expose them to the field with hopes that some of them may pursue it, and maybe even eventually work for us at Centene.” To Don, it simply makes sense to partner with Cor Jesu—a place where the mission to Share the Love of the Heart of Christ aligns with his company’s purpose to better the community, a place with a pool of young and eager learners, and a place where he has watched his daughter grow and be challenged. “One of Centene’s major focuses is to develop the next generation of leaders,” Don says. “And what better place to find those leaders than at Cor Jesu?” Join the Cor(p) Jesu Professional Connections Facebook Group! In October 2019, Cor Jesu launched the Cor(p) Jesu Professional Connections Group on Facebook to help Cor Jesu alumnae form professional connections in the St. Louis area and beyond. We invite you to join this group and become part of our network of professional women! Search Cor(p) Jesu Professional Connections on Facebook to request access, or contact Director of Alumnae Relations, Patty Grace Killian ’20 and her dad, Don Killian – Senior Ferrara ’85, at pferrara@corjesu.org Vice President of Actuarial Services at Centene with questions. Corporation, at the Cor Jesu Father-Daughter Dance. SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 11","exp3 DAY 2019 CENTENE ROYAL CANIN Now in its eighth year, exp3: Exposure, Experience, Exploration, CORPORATE PARTNERS INITIATIVE provides a one-day innovative learning experience for all grade levels. On Monday, November 4, 2019, BENRUS almost 400 Cor Jesu SURGERY students participated, CENTER BRIGHTON AGENCY traveling to 36 locations in and around the metro area to actively “My exp3 experience involved watching a live surgery experience and explore and interacting with a team of surgeons throughout a day in the life of a the day. They gave us opportunities to see things I professional area of never thought I would be able to watch at my age! It their choosing. helped me decide that surgery is definitely something Thank you to all of our I’m very interested in pursuing!” -ELISE ADRIAN ‘21 Corporate Partners that participate in exp3 Day each fall! HEARTLAND COCA-COLA WASHINGTON UNIVERSITY IN ST. LOUIS 12 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","ALUMNAE INTERNSHIP NETWORKING CONNECTIONS networking (INC) EVENT 2020 THE COR JESU CORPORATE PARTNERS INITIATIVE IS UNIQUE IN THE FACT THAT CJ STUDENTS CONTINUE TO BENEFIT FROM PROGRAMS EVEN AFTER THEY GRADUATE. On January 7, Cor Jesu hosted its fourth Internship Networking Connections (INC) event where college-aged CJ alumnae and recent college graduates are invited to network with a variety of companies and organizations who are seeking candidates for internships and permanent entry-level positions. Alumnae are also offered one-on- one professional coaching, resume building tips and complimentary professional headshots at this event. This year, nearly 100 CJ alumnae attended the event, networking with 28 companies that were seeking to fill roles in accounting, architecture, engineering, healthcare, law, marketing, non-profit and more. Keynote speaker Ilana Austin, an executive recruiter at Square, gave attendees her top three pieces of advice to job applicants: 1) Proofread applications and resumes carefully 2) Remember to write a thank you note or e-mail after an interview 3) Ask for the job A special thank you to Slalom CORPORATE PARTNERS INITIATIVE St. Louis for sponsoring this great event and to all of the companies who attended! Access Engineering LLC Affinity Law Group Anders CPAs + Advisors Barry-Wehmiller Design Group BKD CPAs \& Advisors Brown Smith Wallace Caleres Centene Corporation The Clark-Fox Family Foundation Express Scripts Hastings + Chivetta Heartland Coca-Cola Jacobs June Jessee Memorial Foundation Krilogy Financial McCarthy Building Companies Northwestern Mutual NISA Provident Behavioral Health Reinsurance Group of America (RGA) Ronald McDonald House Charities of St. Louis Slalom SSM Health St. Louis Cardinals Stifel Tarlton Corporation Watlow World Pediatric Project SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 13","a time of giving GIVING KINDNESS TUESDAY n December 3, 2019, Cor Jesu Academy participated in its fourth Giving Tuesday, raising funds for the future Charger Chapel. We were overwhelmed by O the generosity of our community, and are proud to say that, together, we raised $243,486 to propel us forward in this important piece of our master plan. We were blessed to begin the day with a $110,000 calling families for Giving matching challenge and our students rallied Tuesday and accidentally together to raise $2,182! For the first time, we had dialed the wrong number, evening events on campus for Giving Tuesday; leading her into a lovely both the season’s first home basketball game as conversation with Lee well as the winter instrumental concert fell on about the chapel and December 3. To encourage students to participate Cor Jesu’s mission. Lee Lee Weber and Sr. Veronica Marinari in any way they could, Cate Wittgen ’81 offered to was touched by Sr. V and give $10 for each student who attended the game walked in the next day with and another $10 for each student who attended a gift for the chapel. She said it was “serendipitous” the concert. It was beautiful to see our students that Sr. V had called her on a day where she support each other, while our community happened to be feeling a little down. “God sent supported the chapel. me an angel,” Lee said. We even made a new friend who made a We are grateful for Lee’s kindness and the surprise contribution to the chapel! On Giving generosity of all our alumnae, parents, friends, Tuesday, Lee Weber was sitting in her Affton students, faculty and staff this year! We hope to home when she received a phone call from be praying with you in the new chapel soon! CJ’s own Sr. Veronica Marinari (Sr. V). Sr. V was 14 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","’Twas VISIT WITH SANTA Santa Claus \& his elves visit CJA! the night of St. Nick’s Day, when down Gravois Road Santa’s sleigh needed fixing, to get him on home He pushed with his reindeer, til he saw a light The Sisters were prepping for a cold winter’s night Santa knocked on the door, and Cori gave him a yelp But of course the CJ Sisters were happy to help They placed a quick phone call to Tom and Matt Who sprang to the scene with their tools, it was stat! The sleigh was fixed and Santa was all set to go But he was so grateful and KINDNESS wanted them to know So he called on his elves to make their way to CJA And they set up the North Pole in a very special way The Auditorium was filled with Christmas crafts and games And Santa welcomed every parent and child by name Joyful Christmas music made its way down the halls While children were dancing, singing and throwing snowballs Thank you to the following Mrs. Claus even came, serving alumnae for helping us create warm cookies to each guest such a special day for our Christmas cheer December 7 at CJ became a community! day unlike the rest Margie Geraghty-Schaeffer ’67 Santa stayed until each Sara Whitman Carron ’96 Christmas wish was heard Karen Czmarko ’96 Then he left CJA with a few Irene Schlueter Lee ’96 little words Veronica Schlueter Russo ‘99 “Thank you for your kindness Julie Schwarz Przygoda ‘01 and shining your light And a special thanks to our Merry Christmas to all and to student “elves!” all a good night!” SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 15","BenFred: From Fairground Park to the NBA, Ivey’s inspiring basketball climb continues by Ben Frederickson of the St. Louis Post-Dispatch Photos courtesy of the University of Notre Dame. T he boys once told her no. school championship in 1995. In college, she helped Ivey lifted her Cor Jesu team to a Missouri state high congratulations, Niele! Notre Dame win its first national championship under Hall of Fame coach Muffet McGraw. That was in 2001. Now she will coach and coach against the She went on to play five seasons in the WNBA. Since best male basketball players in the world. returning to her college alma mater to coach in Niele Ivey wins. 2007, Ivey became McGraw’s top assistant as Notre Dame made seven Final Four appearances, six of The St. Louis sports hero has done it since which turned into title games. One became another a little girl defied her brothers’ basketball championship victory, in 2018. Many believe Ivey will teasing. be the future head coach at Notre Dame. And maybe that happens. “Too small,” they jeered years ago. “Too slow.” But Ivey, 41, recently made history again when she became the first woman on the coaching staff of the They learned. NBA’s Memphis Grizzlies. As their new assistant coach, “I always looked up to playing my brothers,” Ivey is just the ninth woman ever on an NBA coaching Ivey recently said by phone. “That’s where staff. Her strong background in player development and the youth movement on Memphis head coach my passion for the game originated.” Taylor Jenkins’ team made Ivey a perfect fit. It also Look at where it’s led her. helped that the Grizzlies selected Murray State point guard Ja Morant with the No. 2 pick in this year’s draft. Ivey knows a thing or two about that position. The Post-Dispatch recently caught up with Ivey. The following Q\&A has been edited for space and clarity. If you’re reading this, she hopes you make the trip to see her on the Memphis sideline this season. Right: Niele Ivey ’96 coaching the Notre Dame Fighting Irish women’s basketball team. 16 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","P-D: Congratulations, Coach. Was game, because we didn’t play above response. My phone is still this jump from the women’s game the rim, you know? Everything blowing up. It speaks volumes to to men’s something you always had to be detail-oriented. Our the basketball community, men had in mind? fundamentals had to be solid. The or women. Memphis completely Ivey: “I just wanted to get out of my way we set screens. Passing. Angles. embraced me. I’ve had such great comfort zone, to be honest. I’ve had Ball handling. Shooting. All of those feedback from fans, family and the opportunity to learn from a Hall things, very, very fundamentally friends in St. Louis, people who of Fame coach for 12 years, and I feel sound. We didn’t have athletes that have followed my career. There are like this was an opportunity for me you could just throw a lob to. We a lot of new Memphis Grizzlies fans. to even grow more. Coach McGraw is have to have talent and athleticism, It’s brought positive attention. For always learning, always growing. And but we didn’t have that (kind). So, my me, that’s awesome. I knew the when this opportunity presented perspective is a little bit different.” magnitude of it, because I talked to itself, she was the first person I told. P-D: Speaking of player development, Coach McGraw about it. It’s really This was a great opportunity for me your son, Jaden, is a basketball player awesome to feel that I’m inspiring to learn. And then it comes with who has committed to Purdue. How young girls, young women, a lot of the whole, you will be a trailblazer, did raising and coaching him help people. That is what it’s all about. It’s and all of that stuff. But initially, just prepare you for this new job? something I’m going to embrace. It’s learning from a different level. Being Ivey: “When I wasn’t coaching with a door that was opened for a reason. in one place for a long time, I’ve Notre Dame, I’m in the gym with him. I want to make everyone proud, and always wondered how so-and-so Watching his practices, watching do a really good job.” runs their program, or how they his AAU practices, watching how P-D: There is some symbolism in implement their offense. I can’t wait his coaches interact with him. Being your story, right? The little girl whose to absorb so much information. there, being a voice of reason for big brothers used to try (and fail) to When you surround yourself with him when he was struggling with keep off the court is now coaching greatness, it can only rub off.” things, or figuring out how he sees in the NBA. P-D: You have said you can offer the game. I’ve had opportunities to Ivey: She laughed, and agreed. a unique perspective to the NBA observe and watch USA Basketball. “We were playing in Fairground ALUMNAE IN THE NEWS thanks to your time coaching the I’ve had five or six days just sitting Park in north St. Louis. When I women’s game. Some would argue in the gym watching really great was younger, I would tag along that basketball is basketball. What’s individual skill work, individual talent. and watch them. That’s where it the difference, and why can it be a That’s definitely something that originated from. Then, when my strength for the Grizzlies? made me more comfortable.” brothers were at Chaminade, I would Ivey: “Where I learned, fundamentals P-D: Can you describe the reaction be the little girl on the floor, trying to were really, really important. I you have received since the news of shoot at halftime. The student body learned to perfect things in a very your hiring in Memphis? would cheer me on. It’s so funny that detailed manner from the women’s Ivey: “It’s been such a positive it’s all come full circle.” Approved © 2019, St. Louis Post-Dispatch “ It’s really awesome to feel that I’m inspiring young girls, young women, a lot of people. That is ” what it’s all about. -NIELE IVEY ‘96 17","Year after reincarnation, Webster Groves Bookshop has re-found its community by Jane Henderson of the St. Louis Post-Dispatch C heryl Bartnett prepared for an empty nest by buying books. In fact, she also resurrected a bookstore to put them in. “This is kind of my retirement project,” Bartnett says. August marked her one-year old store, noting on its website that vacant space during walks. They contemplated whether to open a store anniversary as owner of the new/ owners used a literary reference ALUMNAE IN THE NEWS Although the bookstore business the name. could have the shelves and wood. from an Emily Dickinson poem for and asked the building’s owner if they old Webster Groves Bookshop. Sometimes lunch patrons walk Bartnett knew it was a big step, but has never been a cash cow, Bartnett is happy with the first year’s sales: “It thought, “If we decide to do this, we half-a-block to the new store at 27 surpassed my wildest expectations.” have it. If we don’t, we have a storage North Gore Avenue, finding a virtual locker of cedar we have to get rid of.” reincarnation of the old Bookshop. The wood-paneled, corner shop was a fixture in town for more than The original rough-hewn cedar They eventually found a space in half a century. In 2016, owner Ann shop closed. As their younger son original shelves, built by Franciscan Foy, then 79, closed the landmark at monks. (The store was founded in was about to go to college, Cheryl 100 West Lockwood Avenue, citing paneling is on the walls, as are the the Old Webster area when a fabric her declining health. She, too, had 1965 by Natalie Sheetz and Julie and Neil Bartnett spent weeks become a bookstore proprietor after Robinson, who hired architect Robert putting up paneling and painting. her children were grown, buying it J. McClenahan to design it.) She felt her new business wouldn’t with her husband in 1999. The large white Japanese lanterns quite be starting from scratch. Every When the store’s closing was are new, but they look like clones of Monday, Bartnett had gone to see announced, loyal customers mourned the lights that hung for decades from Ann Foy, who was living with her the intimate space’s homey feel. the shop’s ceiling. daughter. Foy gave her blessing to use “I’m going to be very sorry to see it Although the store is slightly smaller, the Webster Groves Bookshop name. go,” Bliss Shands of Kirkwood said in Bartnett says some customers are a She introduced Bartnett to sales 2016. She estimated she’d shopped “little spooked” that it’s so similar. At reps and talked about ordering books. there for 30 years. “They were awfully least one has looked around confused, “I’d sit there and make notes and good about ordering books I want. thinking she was in the old store. ask her a million questions,” Bartnett And the whole interior of the shop Six months after the original says. “It gave her something to be was so charming.” Bookshop closed, Bartnett and excited about again.” Bartnett, who had worked briefly her husband would peer into the Foy also wrote letters to former for Foy, said upset customers even came in “for one last smell.” Three years later, the Lockwood site houses the Clover and the Bee. “ I feel like I’m giving back to ” The restaurant pays homage to the the community. -CHERYL BAUER BARTNETT ‘77 18 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","customers, telling them the shop was reopening. When the store debuted Aug. 7, 2018, customers returned, paying full price for books in lieu of online discounts. “The community has come back and so embraced this place,” Bartnett says. Four days after the opening, Foy’s family gathered for her birthday. They wanted to see the Bookshop. Foy insisted on going, so they took her in her wheelchair. A photo of her at the new shop would run with her obituary just a few months later. This past May, the store was the site for the family’s celebration of Foy’s life. Bartnett says: “I miss her every day. I think, ‘What would Ann choose?’” Bartnett, who had only worked at the old store for eight months, says she’s been “slowly getting my book feet.” She has a carefully curated collection of classics and quality new books, usually just one copy per title. There are children’s books, but few toys. Now, she’s planning to turn a lower-level space into a meeting room for book clubs. She’s made back her initial financial investment. But clearly that isn’t Bartnett’s greatest pride: “I feel like I’m giving back to the community.” Approved © 2019, St. Louis Post-Dispatch SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 19","THANK YOU FOR YOUR SUPPORT OF THE 41 ANNUAL TREASURES ST OF THE HEART AUCTION! Itwasa ”roaring”sucess! ALUMNAE EVENTS A special thank you to our 2020 Auction Chairs: Matthew \& Carrie George Jost ’93 \& Robert \& Andrea Fischer Funke ’93! # of Attendees: # of Alumnae Attendees: 484 # of Volunteers: 120 # of Student Volunteers: 85 53 # of Appearances by Blessed Clelia: 1 Photos by Christine Ngo ‘21 20 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","nevergiveup! LAUREN MURPHY SPEAKER EVENT ALUMNAE EVENTS t the Fall Alumnae Association A meeting in she able to walk and talk, she October 2019, Cor Jesu Academy has even run in 5k races. welcomed inspirational speaker, With a little help from her Lauren Murphy, to share her mom, Colleen, Lauren shared her story of faith, determination story at CJ along with the five and recovery. biggest lessons she has learned On a morning run during throughout her recovery: a 2013 business trip to Los Angeles, Lauren was struck by 1. Show Up a car and critically injured. She 2. Find Your Cheerleader remained in critical condition for 3. Kindness is Free weeks, suffering from traumatic 4. Work Hard brain injury. She had a slim 5. Never Give Up chance of survival, and doctors said if she did survive, she would Cor Jesu wishes Lauren, a #MurphysDontQuit most likely never be able to feed fellow Catholic all-girls’ school herself, walk, talk or understand graduate (Incarnate Word spoken words again. Academy ‘06) the best in her Today, Lauren is still working continued journey. The CJ on her recovery, but not only is community was truly inspired! SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 21","girls only... ALUMNAE EVENTS T reunion event. We hope to see you he invitations for the 2020 class reunions will be arriving in the mail soon, equipped with all the details for the CJ girls-only back on campus in June! A special thank you to the following alumnae, who have volunteered to be on their reunion committee: 1960 1965 Marie DiMartino Wohlert Gail Gregory Hunyar \& Joan Pieper Korpal 1970 SAVE THE DATE 1975 Leslie Garanzini Bono, Micky Heimos Byland \& Julie Yates Radke FOR CJA’S 2020 1980 Becky Rabbitt Pogorzelski \& Lisa Komrska Younger 1985 Barb Guenther Bardelmeier, Patty Ferrara CLASS REUNIONS! 1990 \& Barb Davis Reinholz Joan Lutkewitte Fisher and Teresa Beckerle Jellison 1995 Jennifer Lebbing Walton 2000 Emily Baumann Kohlberg \& Jen Betz Kuhn 2005 Kathleen Grim \& Kelly Hoffman Kong SATURDAY, JUNE 6, 2020 2010 Maggie Murphy, Brittany Pallme WE LOOK 1965, 1970, 1985, \& Mary Kate Mullen Theriault FORWARD TO 1990, 2005, 2015 2015 Sarah Jaeger, Kathryn Kohnen, Allison Stumpf \& Molly Waller “gettingmad SATURDAY, JUNE 13, 2020 To volunteer to be on your class reunion committee fortheplaid” 1960, 1975, 1980, or for more information about the CJ class reunions, 1995, 2000, 2010 please contact Patty Ferrara at 314.842.4429, ext. 266 WITH YOU AT or pferrara@corjesu.org or visit our website at YOUR REUNION! www.corjesu.org/reunions. 22 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","alumnae traces Upcoming 2015 MARRIAGES Alumnae 2010 1997 Emily Stahl, owner Kathleen Fuller Events of Emily Stahl Design Patrick and her Co., partnered with husband, Chris Patrick, the St. Louis Blues in celebrated their 10th November 2019. She wedding anniversary designed a hand- by renewing their Deceased Alumnae lettered “Let’s Go Blues” vows on October 18, Memorial Mass Sawyer Judge was tote bag that was the 2019. Kathleen lives in accepted into the giveaway at Teacher O’Fallon, MO where she Friday, March 6 prestigious Accelerated Appreciation Night on and Chris are raising 8:15 a.m. Security Studies November 21, when the two sons, Brenden (6) Cor Jesu Academy Graduate Program at Blues played Calgary. and Henry (5). She is Georgetown University. a part-time Pediatric Alumnae Night at The program, founded 1992 Psychotherapist at the Musical – within the Pentagon, Progress West. “Bye Bye Birdie” is absorbed into the Wednesday, April 1 School of Foreign 2008 6 p.m. – Reception Service and is ranked Kate Horan married 7 p.m. – Performance globally as the leading Patrick Keeley on Cor Jesu Academy program in Security. April 17, 2019, at The Sawyer graduated with Basilica of Saint Louis, a bachelor’s degree in King (Old Cathedral). Spring Alumnae the Science of Foreign Lori Sinclair ’08 was Association Meeting Service this December the maid of honor, and Tuesday, April 21 and will graduate with Maggie McGrath ’08 7 p.m. a master’s degree in and Christine Kutis Cor Jesu Academy ALUMNAE EVENTS Military Operations Tillotson ’08 were this Spring. bridesmaids. Alumnae Inductions for the Class of 2020 2011 Friday, May 1 Megan Ostermueller, BIRTHS 8:15 a.m. the creative force behind the design 1997 Cor Jesu Academy business, The Mod Karen Callanan Company, was featured Schneider and her Alumnae Night at as one of ALIVE husband Joe Schneider St. Patrick Center Magazine’s three Dr. Julie Young of joyfully announced Tuesday, May 12 St. Louis Artisans on the Premier Pediatrics was the birth of their son, Time TBD Rise in August 2019. chosen by her peers Jonathan Lee Schneider, Megan is a graphic and St. Louis Magazine on December 31, 2018. Alumnae Class Reunions designer and lettering as one of the 2019 Best Jonathan joins big Saturday, June 6 and artist with a passion Doctors in the area. brothers Ryan (9) and Saturday, June 13 for paper goods and Patrick (7), as well as Cor Jesu Academy modern calligraphy. older sister Allison (5). WE WILL NOT FORGET If you have exciting news New! to share about yourself or YOUR spirit TRUE! a fellow CJ alumna, please Run with the Nuns send them to us by emailing Colleen Barry ’11, Director of Marketing \& Social Media, at 5k Run/Walk Saturday, April 18 cbarry@corjesu.org. Time TBD Grant’s Trail SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 23","40% of CJ families are receiving financial aid, thanks in part to Class Endowed Scholarships. “RECEIVING THIS GENEROUS SCHOLARSHIP provides me with so many opportunities. I am able to go to a school that I love, and I have amazing friends that I never would have met outside of Cor Jesu. Cor Jesu provides us with materials and equipment that challenge us to think in new ways. I am able to understand so much of the world around me while I am in a classroom, which I think is incredible! Thank you for your kindness!” – Amy Hohenberger ’21 GIVING Heart-to-Heart Society “THROUGH MY EDUCATION at Cor Jesu, Share the Love of the Heart of Christ with I learned the importance of leading a values-centered life. the next generation of Chargers! Some of my favorite memories include attending the March for THE HEART-TO-HEART SOCIETY is a group of alumnae who have chosen Life, playing field hockey and to make an automatic recurring gift to their Class Scholarship spirit weeks. Those experiences, Fund, which provides financial assistance to a fellow Charger in combined with the education I received in the classroom, I learned need. When you join the Heart-to-Heart Society with a recurring the values of integrity, gratitude, gift, you will enjoy the heartfelt benefit of knowing your support is service and leadership. helping a student realize her potential in the halls of Cor Jesu. I contribute to the Heart-to-Heart To learn more, visit corjesu.org/H2H or contact Director of Alumnae Society so that more young gift educational experience, impact Relations, Patty Ferrara ’85, at pferrara@corjesu.org. women can have the same their community and grow to be leaders of integrity. our Showing our gratitude To all the alumnae who are considering donating, this is truly Heart-to-Heart Society members the best way you can give directly receive a special tumbler! to a student and her future! Please consider making an impact by giving back!” – Libby Brooking Evers ’08 24 SPIRIT MAGAZINE SPRING 2020","In Memoriam We extend our sincere condolences and prayers to the families of the Cor Jesu community mourning the loss of their loved ones. Cor Jesu mourns Virginia Frein the loss of our Mother-in-law of alumnae: Barbara Kramer Frein ‘82 Susan Streuber Grandmother of Elise Moorman ’64 Frein O’Brien ‘11 and Andrea Frein Carol Daugherty Riesenberg ‘13 Klarsch ’70 Peggy Gilligan Mother of Ann Gilligan Hancock ‘82 Michael Antinora Grandmother of Katie Brother of Sr. Catherine Gilligan Costantinou Antinora, ASCJ ‘67 ‘01, Theresa Hancock ‘11 and Angie Kenneth Auck Hancock ‘15 Mother of Marie Auck Judith Haenni Pendergast ‘79 Grandfather of Mother of Becky Haenni ‘02 Katie Pendergast Dolan ‘08, Lorie Myra Heaghney Janice Parrino- Alan Schubert Collin Taaffe Pendergast ‘08, Mother of Kathy Christy Pendergast Heaghney Hill ‘69, Reed Father of Sandy Brother of Lauren ‘11, Molly Auck ‘18 Rita Heaghney Mother of Stephanie Schubert Bevolo ‘85 Taaffe ‘22 and Angela Auck ‘19 Welz ‘70 and Joan Parrino Craig ‘90 Geneva “Genny” Nephew of Maureen O’Shea ‘89 Mark Crenshaw Heaghney Deelo ‘77 Evelina Pasetti Schwaig-Davis Cousin of Megan Father of Maria Mother-in-law of Mother of Angela Mother of Kathleen O’Shea ‘20 and Jeanne Schulte Crenshaw ‘19 Heaghney ‘81 Pasetti Holland ‘72, Schwaig Buritsch Kristen O’Shea ‘23 Lorenza Pasetti ‘76, ‘72 and Marianne Patrick Crowe Grandmother of Julie Carla Pasetti ‘85 and Schwaig Boettger ‘75 Virgil Vonder Haar Husband of Jane Hill Bertel ‘95, Laura the late Vivian Father of Mary Bauman Crowe ‘67 Hill Hotz ‘98, Chrissy Pasetti ‘74 Brandon Sechrist Lou Vonder Haar Father of Laura Crowe Hill Rogers ‘00, Ann Grandmother of Husband of Allie Greenfield ‘68, Sobol ‘95 Deelo Guntli ‘03 and Gabrielle Holland Faber ‘07 Christine Vonder Haar Glenn Michael Amy Deelo Curtin ‘08 Abel ‘03 Alphonse W. ‘70, Sr. Jeanne Marie “Mikey” Dugan Kenneth Hirlinger Betty Rumbolo Steinman Vonder Haar, ASCJ Son of Glenda Dugan Stepfather of Nina Mother of Lisa Father of Julie ‘71, Laura Vonder (CJ Staff) Berenato ‘05 Rumbolo Jellinek ‘84 Steinman King ‘80 Haar Bolt ‘72 and Janice Vonder Haar Elias “Eli” Engel Mary G. Kempf Harry J. Schneller Stephen M. Wilson ‘74 Son of Tamara Mother of Mary Kempf Father of Kay Schneller Strawhun Grandfather of Sarah Kenny ‘85 Holtmann ‘81 Dulle ‘76 and Ann Husband of Cindy Bolt Crowell ’99, Nephew of Lisa Craig Kramer Schneller Vessey ‘78 Schonhoff Katherine Bolt Kenney ‘86 Grandfather of Kristen Strawhun ‘77 Fischer ‘03, Emily Father of Chelsea Brother-in-law of Barb Mary Fendler Kramer Borchers ‘06 Moore Lewandowski Schonhoff Yemm ‘86 Bolt ’05, Emma Mother-in-law of and Hannah Kramer ‘92, Jessica Farhatt Uncle of Beth Nogosek Vonder Haar ‘11 Shelley Fender, Cor Kutz ‘09 Kerckhoff ‘93, Laura Galli ‘08 Barbara Wittgen Jesu Director of Raymond Kramer Moore Bohon ‘94, Mother of Dr. Catherine Special Events Father of Laura Kramer Maria Farhatt Dunlap George Swett Wittgen ‘81 and Mary Grandmother of Ava O’Hallaron ‘79, Nancy ‘99, Corrie Moore Father of Jenn Taylor Carol Wittgen Fendler ‘20 Kramer Kroll ‘81, Galli ‘99 and Mary (CJ Faculty) Parker ‘83 Grace Schneller ‘22 Maria Fernandez Barb Kramer Frein Grandmother of Mother of Coco ‘82, Debby Kramer Betty Schonhoff Caroline Parker ‘13, Fernandez ‘10 Koulouriotis ‘88 and Mother of Cindy Clare Parker ‘16 and Michelle Kramer Schonhoff Victoria Wittgen ‘18 Moffatt ‘90 Strawhun ‘77 and Alyce Zimmerman Grandfather of Emily Barb Schonhoff Mother-in-law of Kroll Carpenter ‘11, Yemm ‘86 Bridget Atwood Elise Frein O’Brien ’11, Grandmother of Beth Zimmerman ‘02 Gretchen Kroll Nogosek Galli ‘08 Grandmother of Amy ‘12, Andrea Frein Zimmerman ‘11 Riesenberg ‘13, Hannah Kroll ‘15 SPRING 2020 SPIRIT MAGAZINE 25","Cor Jesu students load the St. Patrick Center truck with bags full of new socks and underwear collected during Funderwear 2020. Together, with St. Joseph’s Academy, NON PROFIT ORG. U.S. POSTAGE PAID ST. LOUIS, MO PERMIT NO. 2912 we collected 23,896 new pairs! 10230 Gravois Road Saint Louis, MO 63123 Electronic Service Requested COR JESU ACADEMY MISSION STATEMENT Cor Jesu Academy, a Catholic, college- preparatory school founded by the Apostles of the Sacred Heart of Jesus, offers an academically challenging program committed to the total education of young women. Inspired by the charism, “SHARING THE LOVE OF THE HEART OF CHRIST,” students embrace personal dignity, faith, integrity and compassion. Empowered intellectually, spiritually, and ,"];